5 Things Cis People Can Actually Do For Trans People (Now That You Care About Us)

The (Trans)cendental Tourist

It’s been a weird year for trans people.

Allow me to be more specific: It’s been a heated, daring, tumultuous, graphic, specularizing, aggressive, pointed,contentious, highlyfatal, and really, really complicated year for trans people.

Here are a few examples: Kristina Gomez Reinwald, Ty Underwood, Lamia Beard, and many othertranswomen of color have been brutally murdered at the hands of lovers, family members, and strangers.Meanwhile,Laverne Cox and Janet Mock have come to fame and exhibited incrediblefeats of grace, articulation, and poignancy under the gaze ofan eager media. Blake Brockington, Leelah Alcorn, Taylor Alesana, and many other transgender youth have committed suicide afterenduring endless bullying and systematic brutality. Meanwhile, Jazz Jennings became the new face of Clean & Clear and published a children’s picture book about her life, and teen trans couple Arin Andrews and KatieHill (best known for “Can You Even Believe They’re Trans?!” types of headlines) wrote and published individual books…

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God’s Gender: A Cautionary Tale

... because God is love

Is God a man?

Is God a woman?

Does it really matter?

These and similar questions seem to be doing the rounds again, on social media and elsewhere. My answers, in brief, would be “No”, “No”, and “Yes, very much.”

Why does it matter so much? Why does it matter what language we use about God, what pronouns and names and titles we use to address and describe God?

Let me tell you a story.

You know those arguments children have which go “boys are better than girls”, “no, girls are better than boys”, “no, boys are better than girls”, on and on and on? They’re especially annoying on long car journeys or in waiting rooms.

A while back, two of the children I work with, then aged about 5, were having just such an argument. I wan’t paying much attention, just keeping half an eye on things in case…

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who i am and why i am here

So wh am i and whi i am here. I am a cam girl lol and adult entertainer. every thread i read and everuything statest that you should have a blog or website. now i am not much of a typore and storyteller. but i will give this a go. i gotta remember to link my social media to this and vice versa. i gotta remember to tag and hell update once a while. it just seems i am takeing on too much and sometimes  not enough i have gotta manage my time more aptly/.

Tranny Cam Girls

Ok. So many blogs, sites, articles deal with “girls” in the damming business. Heck, I even found whole section devoted to the boys. But what about us ladyboys and gentle ladies? Hardly nothing.
So that is what I will be trying to devote this blog to. Those of us stuck somewhere in the middle and out only main options is the sex industry or crime. And well I don’t know about the rest of y’all but I do not feel like going back to prison. Had a good time but not again.
We are an untapped market right now regarding the searching for qualified talent as well as the
marketing and promoting of established entertainers.
Granted we have our “Grooby Girls” and most sites have there “transexual” section. But we are the last header. It is usually an afterthought. But for most “straight” males we are one of the first section clicked.
They find us to be their “deep dark secret”. That they can fulfill that fantasy with very little negative consequences in cam. If it is found out they visited the site by their wives well that can all be explained away using female rooms as the guise.
Now these sites obviously use trackers so they know who clicks where, when, how, often, etc. So why aren’t they do to strategically market their ” secret”? No answers as of yet but I will try to get to the bottom of it. All the while trying to make the most out of my cam career. And tell you all about it in the blog. While still educating you trannies on the profession. And linking resources for you and of course to get my affiliate marketing money.

A month later.

So it is now the start of months number two in my little camming life. Where will this month take me? What will I learn this month? I am super excited to find out! In case you weren’t around for the ride during the first month….and most of you weren’t because I didn’t blog about it….U started modeling last month made 300$ from it so I feel it is an adventure and career to still be Pershing. I am just learning about lighting camera speeds rude guests how to use sex toys and damn a bunch of other shit .I will be documenting from this point on. I am now ttrying to figure out how to manage my time. And money. Lol till later

Smooches

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